Monday, March 17, 2008

The 10 things successful people require to achieve new dreams:

To turn dreams into reality, you need several things. Look at the following list. Do you have all of these things in your life right now? If you're lacking even one area, hire me to fill in the gaps, so you can reach your goals faster. You deserve to have every area filled. Otherwise, you're just wasting time.

1. Support. You need a supportive group of like-minded people in your life to achieve success. Your Life Coach is one of these important people. Your coach will help you find ways to grow your support network.

2. Feedback. You require objective feedback to attain success. Not the response of those with a financial or emotional stake in your decisions -- your coach is objective -- your happiness is the only interest of your coach.

3. Creativity. You need to access your own creative power to reach your dreams. Your coach helps you tap into your potential using visualization exercises, relaxation, brainstorming, powerful questioning and other tools.

4. Check in. You need to have someone to check in with weekly (or daily) to reach big, life-changing goals. You know what you "should" do to reach a goal, but humans are naturally on auto-pilot unless we have someone who holds us accountable.

5. A mirror. You need someone who can repeat your ideas back to you in a way you can really hear them. Who can clarify, summarize, and get to the heart of the matter. We all need someone to hold up a mirror and show us exactly where we are at, and where we want to be. Without this, making huge life changes can be truly impossible.

6. A challenge. You need someone who can ask you the questions you've been afraid to ask yourself. What do you really want? What do you need to do to get it? Your coach will listen and take your answers seriously. Your coach will allow you to raise the bar on your expectations for your own life, challenging you to go for it.

7. Perspective. You need someone who can help you identify which fears and old ideas have held you back. Someone who can really listen to you and hear what you're not saying. Who can give you a big-picture perspective. Your coach is here to provide this.

8. A plan. You need a plan. Your coach will sit down with you and identify which action items are key for making your future happen the way it's meant to. When you know exactly what you need to do, it's a relief. It's certain. You will reach success with the right action items bundled together into a solid action plan.

9. Your personality strengths. You need to discover your greatest strengths as a human being. When you know what makes you unique and powerful, you can leverage this towards the success you desire. Your coach will help you discover your own personality strengths, as well as your unique greatness and potential.

10. Acceptance. You need someone who will accept you and your ideas, without judgement. The last thing someone who is about to change their life (and potentially the world) needs is a heckler. Your emotions and thoughts are your own and are helpful for reaching your goals. Your coach will listen and accept what you say as your own personal truth. Your coach knows that YOU are the expert on your own life. Do you have every area covered?


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Want to find the best life coach for you and your goals? Need a new life? Career or personal dreams? Find out more about Life Coaching. I'm Julie Melillo, a NYC Certified Life Coach serving professional, ambitious clients in-person in New York City and over the telephone and internet -- I coach financial traders, attorneys, entrepreneurs, artists and anyone creating a big, brand new life. 

Have you ever wondered -- what's next?

Life Coaching helps you discover who you are, what you want, and how to get it quickly. This information is inside of you, but since you are you, it's hard to see it clearly. I will listen to you intensely, drawing out the information we need to co-create your new life. Why do athletes have coaches? Why do presidents? Why do celebrities always travel with packs of people?Unlike therapy or counseling, Life Coaching means I'm your equal partner. We both have the same goal -- to improve your entire life! You deserve to be happy and live the life of your dreams.

Dream wildly and live courageously!Who do I work with? The emotionally brave, bold and adventurous -- even if you wouldn't know it by looking at them. Emotional strength and bravery is rare, and it's what enables people make life changes. It's what we develop in coaching.
It is terrifying to try something new. This is why so few people do it. Learning how to tear down your expectations and build a new life from the ground up is not easy, but it is worth it. If you're emotionally healthy and take responsibility for yourself and your decisions, coaching could be for you. CEOs, presidents, rock stars, entrepreneurs, businesspeople and celebrities ALL require unique, individualized support to reach specific dreams in a fulfilling way.You deserve to feel joy, to get excited about your work, to be fulfilled by your relationships. To do all of those important things that haven't been enough of a priority.

Hire me, and your dreams become my priority too.


http://www.yourdreamslifecoach.com
Want to find the best life coach for you and your goals? Need a new life? Career or personal dreams? Find out more about Life Coaching. I'm Julie Melillo, a NYC Certified Life Coach serving professional, ambitious clients in-person in New York City and over the telephone and internet -- I coach financial traders, attorneys, entrepreneurs, artists and anyone creating a big, brand new life. 

How Coaching Helps

Is there more to your life?

You have even more potential and now you're ready to see it. Finally ready to answer those questions that need to be addressed.You know there is potential for your life that extends beyond the life you have now -- but something has prevented you from building this new life. What is it? Let's move it out of the way.

Things are different now. Something has attracted you to this web site. To the idea of building a new life. It's for a reason. What are you capable of becoming? If it's the right time for you to build a new life step-by-step, email me and ask about my life coaching rates and plans (no obligation). Or just ask a question.

Are you seeking happiness? The fact is, successful people face great challenges -- isolation, stress, burnout, few or no objective listeners with no stake in the outcome, no time for relationships, and lack of leisure time and relaxation. Coaching can help.Do you want to re-connect to yourself? What did you dream of as a child? What one dream would substantially change your life for the better?I help you reach the dreams that will make your life fulfilling.

I do this in two ways. And it's all confidential, so you can trust me to keep your important information private. Do you have enough time? Chances are, you don't. Clarify and prioritize what really matters in your life and you will feel fulfilled. I can help you as an individual, or your organization. Let's get down to what really matters to you, whatever it is. And then, let's discover the way you'd like to make it happen.I want to listen to your vision. Your goals are my number one priority.

Do you have enough support to put your dreams into action? Get all you need with Life Coaching so that you can focus on and reach your dreams. Email me today and let's get started on this exciting new journey! Or, send a friend to this blog.


http://www.yourdreamslifecoach.com
Want to find the best life coach for you and your goals? Need a new life? Career or personal dreams? Find out more about Life Coaching. I'm Julie Melillo, a NYC Certified Life Coach serving professional, ambitious clients in-person in New York City and over the telephone and internet -- I coach financial traders, attorneys, entrepreneurs, artists and anyone creating a big, brand new life.