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"Where the Jobs Are" Event (Manhattan), Tuesday Jan 26th, 5:30pm-7:30pm. Visit my coaching table for giveaways and coaching discounts! Details here: http://www.networkingforprofessionals.com/eventlistings.php?event=JOBS

When we lose something

The things we lose, they fall away like fragments of a statue as it's being sculpted. what lies beneath is the beautiful form, that only removing parts of the marble could create.

We all have things we need to lose, in order to gain what we want. Sometimes losing these things, or people, is extremely painful. It is painful to carve into that statue. But it's also what allows the statue to take form.

What do you need to lose?

Losing weight, to gain health.
Bad relationships to gain good ones.
Anger, to gain acceptance.
Fear to gain courage.

What do you need to allow to be chipped off of your statue so you can shine?

Frustrated dating?

I'm reposting this ad here on my blog for you frustrated daters in Manhattan!

Looking for a great, compatible relationship? Been dating a lot, but haven't found the right one? We all know it's tough out there in NYC, one of the most difficult places to date in the country.

Work with me to stay motivated and clarify what you want, to become the best version of yourself. This will lead you to naturally draw in your best matches!

This is NOT a "get laid" approach -- that's easy enough to do in the city. The hard part about Manhattan is finding a real, honest, supportive relationship, and that's what I help you with! My typical client is successful, social, confident -- and frustrated they haven't found the right person yet. They're typically quite busy, or have been very busy in the past -- which can make it difficult to date.

I'm a NYC certified life coach, and I myself have online dated for over 5 years, so I know how frustrating and uninspiring it can be! This is what we'll work on, plus more:

*CREATE your vision for what you actually want in a relationship -- if you aren't writing your own rules, you might be self-sabatoging! It's easier to get what you know you want!
*DISCOVER your strengths as a person -- you can't feel confident about what you don't know you have! We'll uncover your top personality strengths, so you can clearly know what you're bringing to a relationship.
*FIND OUT your number one personality type for long term compatibility -- out of 16 types! Plus 3 other "best" types for least conflict in long-term dating -- learn what traits your best matches have and how to find them in a crowd, or online.
*FEEL CONFIDENT about your appearance -- we'll boost your confidence by accentuating the positive. Confidence is the most important physical attribute -- we'll strengthen that foundation. We'll encourage you to do your best to look great -- little things like a great haircut or new shoes really do make a difference -- but we won't go overboard here -- low maintainance casual hot is what we're after.
*UNDERSTAND YOUR BELIEFS about dating, and identify the ones that have held you back. We'll seek the truth here, so you can write your own new beliefs that support your vision.
*STAY ON-TRACK AND MOTIVATED with our weekly check-ins -- otherwise we all know how easy it is to have dating burnout.
*STRIVE TO BALANCE ALL AREAS of your life, so you feel happy and good in general, which is always attractive!
*CREATE BODY LANGUAGE -- in-person sessions will help us make the most of your naturally attractive body language, and learn ways to become even more attractive simply by how you're sitting or standing.
*BE YOURSELF COMPLETELY on dates, to attract the most compatible matches for the long-term (people who GET you) -- but the best version of yourself.
*TAKE ACTION after creating your plan of what you want and how you'd like to go about it -- you won't be forced to take unpleasant action, but will be excited about the tasks that you choose for yourself.
*MAKE 2010 the year you get what you want!! You deserve it.

I'm a late 20s female coach, ICF NYC member, Certified coach. I work with all kinds of successful people looking for a great relationship. I also coach in the areas of career and business and lead workshops on these topics in the city. For more about me, visit: http://www.yourdreamslifecoach.com/

So let's get started! A 5-session "New Start for the New Year" package is available for a promotional price! Email now to ensure you get that before it ends. Include this code in your email when you ask about the special rate -- NY10VV. Looking forward to getting your email and sending you details!