Why we need to ban, "He's just not that into you," or "she's just not that into you" from our vocabulary
"He's just not into you if he isn't calling you." "He's just not into you if he's not asking you out." "He's just not into you if he's not marrying you." And so on... It's a catch-all solution for all of the ambiguous dating situations in which a relationship is stalling , or not moving forward, or not seeming to work out as we'd like. Though it is a catchy phrase from a popular book, delivered under the guise of being helpful, it can actually be harmful by putting too much emphasis on "YOU." Read on to learn why using it is as a bad idea. It could be damaging to your friends AND you. Also read on for real reason it didn't work! Hint, it may have nothing to do with "being into you" or not. So your friend is dating a person you think "isn't that into him/her." You try to be kind, by telling them this. After all, you don't want your friend to waste time or have a bro